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identity
You prefer being accurately judged over being falsely praised.
Self-verification theory suggests that people seek feedback that confirms their own existing self-concept.
Studies show that individuals with low self-esteem are more likely to choose interaction partners who view them negatively. They would rather confirm their internal reality than be comforted by a perception that feels incorrect.
You prioritize internal consistency over external validation.
Where this comes from
- Study
- Swann, 1983
- What the check found
- Swann (1983) is a seminal source for this theory. The claim reflects a foundational concept in social psychology that is widely recognized in academic literature despite the absence of a specific quote here.
- Confidence
- Solid, with limits
Related
One of these every day, and every one names the study it came from. When a finding is contested, it says so.