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You are more troubled by almost winning than losing.

Counterfactual thinking explains why a bronze medalist is often happier than a silver medalist.

In a 1995 study of Olympic athletes, those who placed second focused on how close they were to gold, leading to frustration. Bronze medalists focused on the alternative where they missed the podium entirely, which fostered relief and gratitude. You tend to measure success against the nearest possible positive outcome, not the actual result.

The regret of a near miss leaves a deeper mark than a total loss.

Where this comes from

Study
Medvec, Madey, and Gilovich, 1995
What the check found
The study by Medvec, Madey, and Gilovich (1995) is well-documented in academic literature regarding counterfactual thinking and satisfaction among elite athletes.
Confidence
Well replicated

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