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social dynamics

You assume everyone is watching your every move.

The spotlight effect is the tendency to overestimate how much others notice your appearance or your behavior.

When you worry about a minor stain on your shirt or a stumble in your speech, you believe others are tracking these details. In reality, most people are entirely focused on their own internal experiences and concerns. You are the star of your own mental movie, but everyone else is the star of theirs.

You are rarely as memorable as you fear you are.

Where this comes from

Study
Gilovich et al., 2000, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology
What the check found
The definition and citation are accurate to the seminal 2000 study by Gilovich, Medvec, and Savitsky. As a widely accepted psychological concept, it does not require a specific quote from the provided text to be verified.
Confidence
Solid, with limits

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