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You view your own mistakes as bad luck.

The claim attributes both halves of the actor-observer asymmetry to the Fundamental Attribution Error.

The Fundamental Attribution Error (Ross, 1977) explains why we attribute others' behavior to personality; the Actor-Observer Bias (Jones & Nisbett, 1971) explains why we attribute our own behavior to circumstances.

You give yourself grace that you deny others.

Where this comes from

Study
Ross, 1977
What the check found
The definition provided mixes the Fundamental Attribution Error with the Actor-Observer Bias. Ross (1977) coined FAE to explain the tendency to judge others' character, not the self-other dichotomy.
Confidence
Solid, with limits

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